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Princeton University conducted a survey throughout 450,000 people in 2010. They found that the positive effects of money began diminishing by the time a person begins making about $75,000 per year.
In 2018, Purdue University took a survey sample of more than 1.7 million people throughout 164 countries, and found that the $75,000 figure was ideal for emotional well being, meaning a persons every day level of satisfaction…but $95,000 was ideal for what they call “life evaluation,” which measures how a person thinks and acts on their long term goals and aspirations.
Although, here’s where things take a slightly DIFFERENT turn…The Journey of Consumer Psychology found that money DOES buy happiness, if you just know how to properly spend it…and here’s where things get interesting, because according to them, here’s what CAN make you happy:
First, spend money on experiences – not things.
It was found that the effects of buying material items quickly begin to fade once we get used to them – but experiences are something that our mind continues to look back on, bringing us more positive emotion.
Secondly, spend more WITH people.
Studies were conducted in which people were given money, and then tracked how they spent it – either on themselves, or with others. The group that spent the money with others reported a much higher level of enjoyment than the group who spent it on themselves. Anything we do to improve our connections with others tends to improve our happiness as well—and that includes spending money.
Third, spend money frequently on SMALL things – rather than infrequently on LARGE things
Our minds ability to adapt and get used to even the BEST purchases that money can buy is inevitable…so given that, it was found that our minds are less likely to adapt to a variety of smaller purchases – than we are ONE very large one.
Fourth, spend LESS money on insurance
Purchasing extended warranties or other forms of purchase protection was associated with the likelihood that someone would regret their purchase, and that many people view a purchase with their FUTURE REGRET in mind.
Fifth, pay for things upfront – enjoy them later
People can derive an INCREDIBLE amount of enjoyment and happiness from ANTICIPATING an event, sometimes even MORE so than the actual event itself.
Sixth, think about what you’re NOT thinking about
It was found that the farther out an event was to happen, the more fondly we tend to look at It. But as the event gets closer, we begin to think of all the intricacies that were previously overlooked…By more thoroughly thinking through EVERY part of that purchase, a person is more reasonably able to match their expectation with happiness in terms of what they buy.
Seventh, comparison is the thief of joy
Research shows that people change their opinions about what they want to purchase, by showing them larger, but LESS DESIRABLE comparisons that they could get, instead.
And eighth, follow the heard – not your head
Studies have found that the best indicator of whether or not WE will enjoy something, is whether or not OTHER people have enjoyed it, as well.
The good news, is that you don’t need to be a multi-millionaire to be just as happy as one…because they’re no more happier than anyone else. And by seeing the positives in a situation, appreciating what you have, and by spending your money strategically on the things that matter the most – statistically, you’re the most likely to be happy and hit the like button.
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I don’t think these researches are accurate. Think about: how many ppl you know that makes 90-105k a year? Really, it’s rare, just a small amount of ppl have this privilege . And in this world, if you make like 20k a year you are already making more money than 3/4 of the world population. So how they could find a good number of ppl that make more than 90k, create a parameter and use it to conclude their research?
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Puff daddy said it best ” mo’ money, mo’ problems.”
True but also the more money the more easy it will to handle problems
I hope were talking about net income here!
My wife made me a millionaire
I was a billionaire before I met her
*”Money can’t buy happiness” – every rich guy ever*
It really can. I’m a hunter. I would be very very very happy if I could by a 500 acre farm lol
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Money is happiness on this planet it gives you the ability to buy anything
Money isn’t everything but having it is
Great message!😃
Whoever says money cant buy you happiness doesnt know where to shop.
Money can’t buy you happiness, but the sweet release of black tar heroin is a close second.
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if you have money and you feel like “i havent been to a 2 star restaurant in a while , you can just go there , no issue , you wont have to worry “how will i be able to afford that ?
at mcdonalds , you can just buy stuff for 30€ if you want , rather than just sticking with the smallest drink size
being able to just buy something you want without worrying is another thing
“Money can’t buy happiness”
All my teachers tell me that but if u sit down and think abt it for 2 good mins u realize *That is Bullshit*
In the society we live in It can buy happiness cause without money ur lost and all alone on the streets
Off topic, but Graham’s arms looking foine 💪
Controlling that “if this, then that mentality is probably one of the healthiest things I could do for my mental health, money unrelated. Great video as usual!
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I’m happy. I don’t need much. All i need is a Walmart and high speed internet. And pissed off my old lady everyday
Money doesn’t buy happiness, thuugh it gives the Downpayment
7:57 you hit the nail on the head graham! My father has a friend who immigrated here with nothing, built a business and bought a house and is a very successful man but, he was almost divorced. We had a talk about his marriage and after a long conversation I concluded that his wife is unhappy because of what he is doing. He was surprised at me and said “ Matthew, I came here with nothing. I bought her a house, a car and I take my family on vacations all the time and they need money I give it to them they want for nothing” my response “how much of your time do they get?” He was confused. So I told him “ what good is it to give her all these things, when what she wants most, she is can’t have?”. I am glad to report that he has made time for his family and as a result, his marriage is back on track and a lot of the problems he was having with his kids have changed since he is able to be there and be a father. Money can’t make you a amazing dad/mother or husband/wife or a best friend. While we are all crushing it out there, don’t forget your most important investments, Friends and family.
Money doesn’t buy happiness but it can buy opportunitie.
Money may not buy happiness but I’d rather cry in a Bugatti than a cardboard box.
maybe money can’t buy happiness in a literal sense but somehow it’s much more comfortable to cry in a lambo than on the streets 🤷🏽♀️ it’s not like being poor will get you anything either
Money can buy a chicken sandwich. I would know😋
Money can definitely buy a lot of happiness, experiences, and material things, but it can’t buy everything. For example relationships, or health, or freedom must be earned by putting in the work.
that’s why I am so unhappy
Can I have some money? I need some happiness.
Money doesn’t buy you happiness. It’s what you do with that money will determine if you will become happy
Money can’t buy happiness but it can buy penguins
Did you ever seen someone who owns a penguin sad?
How much cat therapy does your moggy need to become sane?
*herd 😆
Why money buys happiness not having to worry about finances
Yes I agree on this principle. it is your mindset that makes you happy and unhappy not your money. It is how you think the way to use money.
I’m tired of hearing “money can’t buy happiness” I’d rather be rich than have a “happy” life
I was eating dinner when you showed those “pairs of shoes”, Graham….
your liar no money doesn’t bring happiness you also can’t take it to the grave unbelievable how people think it does bring happiness
Money cant buy happiness,but poorness cant buy anything.
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If money can buy happiness explain disneyworld
Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy they are who already possess it.
Graham, to have this mindset, at any age , but especially your age, is a Beautiful thing Man ! Just amazing. Enjoying the moment is tough for a lot of us, but I find meditation helps a whole lot with slowing my mind down to stay where I am , so to speak, and get happiness out of the now.
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Money doesnt determine happiness, money gives you opportunitys to find it, you can still be just as happy without being rich
Here’s the goal “have enough money to buy any experience you want, and live comfortably” U don’t need luxury cars and houses.
In the Jubilee thing you said it couldn’t
If money can buy happiness then all rich people should be happy. I’m broke but there are things in my life right now that I wouldn’t replace for any amount of money.
Money has no doubt bought/brought me happiness and I’m soooooo grateful for it!!
Is that before or after taxes?
Otherwise thx for the great video!
Money gives you choices, opportunities, and the freedom from financial stress, all of which lead to happiness. Ever since I’ve been debt-free with money in the bank, I am so much happier. Not having to worry about bills or my job is liberating. I enjoy my job, but I’m not stuck there and I don’t have to worry about what would happen tomorrow if I lost it.
“ Money can’t buy happiness”….says no one that doesn’t have it 🤑
I got clinically depression and i got 300K $ net worth, but im not happy, „friends“ just left me and they were jealous, i was allone and thats the worst feeling you can get.. Money is changing you and the people arround you. Money does not make you feel happy, maybe it makes you happy for about 6 days when you buy a new nice car or something like that.
Money does buy happiness. Money is a tool. Nothing more, nothing less.
Wrong.
this comment section disgusts me
Money can’t buy you happiness because when you die will money come to you to make you happy no family gives you happiness not money
But in order for your family to be good that requires
Awesome content. Thought provoking for me
@5:09 correlation =/= causation
Money buys me a roof over my head, food on my table, cloth on my mother’s back and food for my dog, it does makes you happy.
This is pretty much spot on. Except for the insurance part. The logic in that study is flawed connecting outlook on life and insurance spending, and making this a general rule. Buying high level health insurance if you have a chronic health issue would obviously be a wise thing to do and not be a reflection of poor decision making, regret, etc.
Also, I am definitely a victim of not living in the moment at times and making to many decisions with the mindset “this will make me happy later”. Enjoyed your thoughts on that.
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It can provide us physical comfortability in life esp in 5 senses but spiritually and mentally, I see money destroys people and sometimes turns them to be evil.
If you think money can’t buy happiness than just transfer it to my account.
Money can buy happiness. Without money you have limited options, look at the homeless. With little money, you slave away your life and fight day by day and have little time for your interests. When you have money, you can experience the greater things in life and that means pursuing your passions and doing stuff you love. Money can lead to happiness.
Only poor people say money can’t buy happiness.
No, people with souls and character say money can’t buy happiness.
@@h.hholmes3118 we all have our opinions
@@h.hholmes3118 even with souls they still need ‘paper with number’
@@cat3784 Besides the point, I need air still doesn’t make me happy.
Money can’t buy you happiness
*But it can buy you a Ninja ZX10R or Lancer Evo and that its enough to make you happiness*
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Not gonna lie I would be pretty unhappy without money 💵
The real thing to understand is this that happiness or misery always comes from within,always,so whether you are content,blissful or miserable it has all to do with you perceptions,attitude,understanding,self esteem,experiences and how to handle things in life,I mean you can make your life the most interesting also you can make your own life hell.
Money doesntt have a direct role in this but it is more satisfactory or content to be getting money,regularly,no matter even if you are the richest man you want to be getting that more and more so basically human minf wants and hankers for more,and the one who learns the art to make the right balance and make life invigorating and cherish,harbor,embrace and harness the things that you get or have instead of any comparison or asking for more,becomes tge happiest person
So I AM UNDOUBTEDLY THE HAPPIEST PERSON ON PLANET,WHEN I FEEL IT,NOTHING ELSE MATTERS,I KID YOU NOT.
Graham, your sleeve, i cant take my eyes off it haha
The comment about experiencing what you have now actually hit home for me lol
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It’s funny how rich people say money can’t buy happiness but will never trade their riches for others poverty
Money is everthing.
Without money you’re nothing.
In the eyes of capitalism. I don’t look for people with healthy bank accounts, because money is the root of all evil.
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omh true, it’s sad i’m poor
I’ve never seen such a consensus among so many thousands across the internet
Dude money can people who say it cant ill just happy laugh at you with my big pokemon deck
Money is basically God
It doesn’t buy love
but no money no love
in my country, someone who have no job and poor can’t marry
satisfaction maybe but not happiness. In order to make the money it requires alot of your time unless you are doing it illegally time is more important then money all day long. So yeah money might make things easier but does it give you happiness nope. Really the happiness comes from the journey of getting the money. Its not the ticket to get the golden goose. you are way off base
The only thing money can do is buy. Happiness can only be bought by money. Keyword is the buying. Doesn’t mean that happiness can’t be obtained without buying.
I prefer rich and sad, than poor and sad
lol
money can’t buy happiness
but have no money is like a hell🤣
“So if money can’t buy happiness
I guess I’ll have to rent it”- Weird Al from This is the Life
If you think money doesn’t buy happiness then you must have an extra chromosome
That $105k before or after taxes?
So buy experience not things ok…
I’ll love to experience driving an v12 every weekend
I am poor. Wasted ten years going to school for a bachelor’s. I graduated in December 2018. Did an amazing Summer internship at Pixar in 2019. I came back to the boring location I don’t want to be in and did a short contract at a local studio. Now I have been searching for jobs since 2019. I have no job and not making any money, and I am running out of what little money I had. Coronavirus apocalypse began and it made everything worse. Money can bring many good things in anyone’s life because of how this demonic system is designed today. Without it, you can’t afford anything you would like, and in worst case scenarios, humans become homeless with no food. I lived in the beautiful Bay Area and I wish I was still there. However, I also saw the many homeless people on every street I walked on. You think those homeless don’t need money? This adage of “money doesn’t bring joy” is false phrase that needs to disappear. The current system on this planet is about money and greed. Without money, humans can hardly survive and are looked down upon in relation to status and wealth.
I lived with a rich person for like a month I guess u can say that’s my first experience “being rich” and I was way happier “being rich” than not
It’s about freedom not money
They say money doesn’t buy happiness, but poverty doesn’t buy anything. It might not directly buy true happiness, but it provides the resource for which you can pursue it. Exotic cars, motorcycles, not worrying how to pay rent/mortgage, incredible vacations and restaurants… even the means to influence other peoples lives for the better.
I had 200 once I felt in control but emotionally I felt drained I started feeling the worlds air smells and taste felt better
Good summary of the book “Happy Money: The Science of Smarter Spending” by Elizabeth Dunn and Michael Norton. The problem with this video is there’s no credit given to this book and there’s no original content from Graham. Plagiarism.
If you have a problem that money can fix and you have money, then you don’t have a problem.
I make over $100,000 a year but I live in Ventura County on the coast of California. I am thinking that it takes $200,000 a year in my area to make me happy.
The thought of buying something brings me a lot more happiness than the thought of spending the money. I cringe at spending money.
I read in a sales book that car sales people need to ask what your friends think of the car you bought and not what you personally think about the car. People will justify what their friends think over what they actually think when it comes to a big purchase.
Pre or post tax dollars?
My bluetooth speaker really brings me happiness though